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Got used to the recognition of outstanding student, the teacher once criticized, not here to walk not talk, "autistic" month -
What makes today's kids so fragile
□ correspondent Shen Lu told reporters Lina Zhang Lihong
The teacher did not expect that his criticism of a simple action, would allow the class of junior high school girls have been outstanding Ling-Ling (a pseudonym) autistic month.
A few days ago, Ling-Ling came to Hangzhou seven hospital admissions experts found no malingering Lingling indeed greatly harmed by the pride of heart sounds reactions caused by psychological factors that lead to a temporary imbalance in physical function.
Although this is a rare case, but with the school teachers are feeling: Why are children so fragile, can not afford a little criticism and frustration? Does it have a certain relationship with the appreciation in recent years, highlighted education? Today, education is not required setback education needs?
[Case]
Excellent girls 'autism'
Lingling is Lin'an, 15 years old, was in junior high school.
"Most people into the psychological clinic, is a man crept in, but kids are carrying her mother came." Ho-ming said that initially thought Lingling not walk a physiological factor, who knows something after he checked and found Lingling nervous system without any problems.
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"The reason my daughter will become so, that they had to blame the teacher." Speaking of her daughter's strange disease, Lingling mom hated.
That class, Lingling it was fiction storyline hanging too uncomfortable, you can not help but out of view. Unexpectedly, loaded with books to hide the good, the teacher found that the novel came to be confiscated, and in Lingling patted his head.
Lingling outstanding achievements since childhood, so criticized by the teacher in front of the whole class, which was the first time the first time. So she immediately burst into tears, since not speak, do not walk.
"Now the family generally have only one child, which parents are willing to spank their children, not to mention the curse, we usually talk to her, not even a little louder." Lingling distressed mother complained, "My daughter is so good, why should the The teacher was wronged by this ah? "
"The little girl did not pretend to be sick, this is kind of heart sounds reaction." Ho Ming said, because the teacher's criticism, let her feel damaged reputation, self-esteem greatly harmed, the psychological factors lead to a temporary imbalance in physical function.
Lingling exclude psychological barriers, and not difficult. Ho Ming first taught her a simple sound, then let her read a newspaper, and finally burst into singing. After several minutes of time, Lingling restored the ability to speak and walk.
Why Lingling at home has been really out? Ho Ming said: "The key issue in the child's mother who always put the child holding in her hand,hollister, a mistake not to criticize, but also to help with their children but also how to blame the teachers that allow children to let go.?"
A meaningful election defeat
Reading third grade Xiaojie just had a class cadre election. Before she had been repeatedly squad, but this time select the campaign vice squad.
"Because prepared, finally unanimously adopted." Speaking of her election process, Xiaojie mother is very mixed feelings.
Why to run for the vice squad,woolrich uomo? This is also talking about school when Xiaojie from
After Xiaojie school performance has been very good,abercrombie, not very good results, in the class has been a squad leader. Next semester sophomore, class cadre re-election, Xiaojie want reelection squad, but eventually lost.
"Unsuccessful for many reasons, but the most important one is that teachers want their children to be a little setback education." Xiaojie said his mother, former teacher told their campaign communicated, said Xiaojie as small to large, whether academic or other aspects are particularly good, but the biggest drawback is that not withstand criticism, sometimes the occasional teacher or classmate said she was not good enough, she would be sad for a long time, and often in tears.
Xiaojie said his mother, in fact, found herself this question, but I do not know where to start has been. Teacher's good intentions, so she was particularly emotion.
Sure enough, after the defeat, Xiaojie not home started to cry, did not understand to complain that he did well in all aspects, there is no mistake,http://silver.q168.net/silver/apeboard_plus.cgi?command=read_message&msgnum=60/, there is no reason to not be elected.
When her mother gave her daughter to do the work Xiaojie repeatedly emphasized that although she is very good,air max, but the other children are also very good, there are glittering. "The teacher also talked with her, and finally the child slowly figured out." Xiaojie mother said, and since then, the children face a lot of criticism openly.
[Survey]
10 parents of nine children did not dare to criticize
Chinese have a saying, "sticks out under the dutiful son,scarpe hogan," talking about the frustration of education respected. But these recent years, with the exchange of Chinese and Western educational philosophy, appreciation of education are increasingly being raised, and getting worse.
"We often go to extremes, the original extreme 'sticks education',http://www.maya-ethnozoology.org,hollister pas cher, and is now almost the 'sticks education' negated, and went to the extreme 'appreciation of education' is." Morning e family friends "Qiaoxiaoqianxi" was a elementary school teacher,louboutin pas cher, she said she once met a student, because the teacher did not complete the job a few critics, even going home to pick up the bag, and said do not go to school later. "Children are followed grandparents grew up, grew up to be spoiled,tiffany outlet, even Mom and Dad are afraid to criticize him."
Reporters in the students did a small survey, eight students, high school students and 12. 14 of them said, usually at home, parents are much praise and less criticism. There is a primary school also said that in the home are his final say, even if what is required,moncler outlet, parents began to disagree, as long as they cried, flew Mozhe.
Reporter survey of 10 parents in the Morning e home base. It was agreed that children should be appreciated when education education education and setbacks in parallel, but nine parents said, rarely criticize the actual situation of the child, not even dare to criticize, because a little criticism, the children made a variety of temper. In addition, how to carry out specific setback education, many parents also said there is no clue.
[Argument]
Appreciation of education is not a simple recognition
"Appreciation Education is the foundation,http://accesio.com/go.cgi, but also appropriately setback education." Headland High School vice principal glad level of moral thought, appreciation of education and education have mastered a degree of frustration.
"Now the kids are basically only one child, or even a 'second generation', a common problem they encounter is that too much to hear the sound of praise, criticism too, so often encountered criticism would not accept one. "Happy Ping said, and now some children an setbacks frequently away from home and even commit suicide, with parents, school education are inseparable.
However, when the children's education is important setbacks,abercrombie pas cher, parents must learn to communicate with children. Note also that a child does something wrong to criticize principles: not the person.
Shen Hung river island primary school principals believe that we are not able to appreciate education simply equated praise, appreciation of education is also tricky.
"When kids really progress further recognition, should not always put the praise on the lips. Unprincipled praise is not conducive to children grow, it is also easy to become complacent, reduce mental capacity." Shen Hung said, such as child The food problem, for just school kids, time to eat, not picky eaters, not leftovers really hard to come by,http://www.bnews.bg,moncler sito ufficiale, so in one year, if the kids can do this, the teacher will reward him a little card on his efforts affirmed. And when the children ascend to higher grades, which is that he should do, so the teacher will not be rewarded.
Physical exercise is the best setback education
"In the clinic, I often ask parents what you like children? Parents answer is often 'good results' That aside this, also liked else? Likelihood of parents answered 'do not know' . "psychologist, director of seven hospitals in Hangzhou Chen Shulin said.
This is the appreciation of education and now the vast majority of parents conducted, as long as the result is good,http://technoresto.org/cgi-bin/forum/dcboard.cgi, praise it blindly, excessive protection to the child, rather than truly to appreciate the child's strengths.
In Chen Shulin seems to pay attention to the real appreciation of the principles of education, should the sake of discussion. Encourage your child to compete, talk to people more than their own good, because relatively society can encourage people to progress.
Now a family is often only a child, everyone he was the center, there is no shortage of praise and praise. These children lack is the collective competitive environment can also be understood as a setback.
As a parent, how to create a competitive environment for the children performed a collective frustration education? Chen Shulin said: "Physical exercise is the best choice."
Chen Shulin said his son's frustration education. Only 8-year-old son to practice taekwondo, not as people just getting started when the children especially frustrating. He encouraged his son, said: "This failure does not matter, the next time we lose out like the others." As a result, the children really win the next home to discuss reward.
Chen Shulin did not let him do so, but for him to develop a higher goal. Over time, with the changing colors of belts, children not only a sense of accomplishment,http://club.che.cn/bbs/home.php?mod=space&uid=156104,air max pas cher, but also know the "Mountains Beyond Mountains, and people beyond" the truth.
Finally, Chen Shulin want to tell all the parents, the child's appreciation of education is a must, but do not because you no principles, and let the children have lost their self.