and some even went into the marriage agency to sell yourself.

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■ Shenzhen Special Zone Daily reporter Xu Hua graduated from university graduates with the approaching footsteps, the employment problem has become a trend nowadays is about community college students need to address the most pressing issues, writing a cover letter, run job fairs, looking recommend their employer, they are I hope that in the final stage of the work carried out last month. However, some female students at the school yet the energy used in the hand: busy busy job blind,piumini woolrich, to become "anxious to marry a family." Or introduce a blind date by their friends and family to find an object, or posted on the Internet marriage, and some even went into the marriage agency to sell yourself.
With the increase of "urgent married family" groups, people could not help but ask: four years of college studying, what is the reason to make these college girls in no hurry to marry urgent job?
Marriage is exactly the same standard
"A woman, 22 years old, 1.66 meters tall, beautiful Fubai,piumini woolrich, senior reading ...... seek to find 32 years of age, height 1.70 m or more, more than a monthly salary of 8,piumini woolrich,000 yuan, there are houses there are successful men car ......" This is a marriage Online fairly representative of many female students at the school in a marriage posts. Levy marry older men and women and society is different is that these marriage age heroine small, mostly in the 22-year-old, but the man on the standard requirements are exactly the same: high income,piumini woolrich, a house and a successful man cars.
It is understood that the Internet has become a marriage nowadays female students at school,http://www.middleeast.org/read.cgi, "anxious to marry family" looking "successful," the main way, dating sites and university BBS and virtual space, they have become the main platform for the marriage of posting.
In Internet marriage, while those anxious to marry the female students also put relatives and friends, and other social resources widely available. "Six months ago I will tell my mate standard cousin, and asked her for me to find a suitable candidate. Few days ago my cousin called me on the phone and said to me to find the right person, and this week you can meet." In Shenzhen Reading senior girls small Chang in Hebei, since parents are the general staff, less money there is room to get to know the right person the car, she put their hopes in the possessions of millions of years ago to marry "rich II "cousin body.
In addition to network marriage and family friends of these two channels, dating girls in school has become a platform for marriage. Reporters found in Shenzhen, a number of dating, the number of female students at the school came to Shenzhen marriage is also a marked increase in the scope of the potential spread of the country: Beijing,http://www.balibali.com/cgi-bin/bbs/petit.cgi?;, Hubei,piumini woolrich, Hunan,piumini woolrich,http://www13.plala.or.jp/white_roots/gwbbs/gwbbs.cgi, Shandong and other provinces and cities in the country more than a dozen colleges and universities in the school graduating Girls have to throw a successful man in Shenzhen Red Hydrangea. A female college student in Hubei "marriage message" in this expression to Shenzhen marriage of reason: "Shenzhen is a beautiful city development prospects, but also the careers of successful people gathered in the city, and I graduated soon and would like to go there working life, But, based on their ability to be difficult,piumini woolrich, so I hope to find happiness through the other half home in this beautiful and prosperous city. successful career as long as he has the ability to give me a happy life, older, some indifferent. "
So anxious to marry sorts?
According to reporters on a number of investigations dating to marriage dating girls in school at the University of widespread job encountered problems. Or because they are studying at university no ordinary fame and employment difficult, or because of the gap between ideals and reality is too large and disheartened by married and would like to take the best years "to change the fate of the" take a shortcut through marriage and a life. These conditions of these girls around almost all of these standards: "There is a good family background, stable, high income, a house and a car." The age of the man who is not a small tolerant attitude: a ten-year-old is not a big problem, conditions are good, the fourteen-year-old big acceptable.
A positive men came to dating and candidates to meet girls in school told reporters that female students than male employment had much difficulty, many employers prefer to poor boys, they were reluctant to conditions of good girls,http://bored.aclub.tw/bbs/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=1172, girls too No work will face two years of marriage birth, nurture children, and many other problems. To avoid immediate employment challenges and pressure to survive,http://als-net.com/cgi-bin/keijiban/als-keijiban.cgi, she did choose this life "shortcut."
Registered in Shenzhen,http://www.massachusetts.edu/cgi-bin/newspro/viewnews.cgi, passed six months of dating 22 year old girls in school so Liu also told reporters candidly reveal their minds: "My academic performance in general, my parents did not help any busy work issues, looking for a comfortable and stable work hard,piumini woolrich, even if found, only enough income to rent, eat, get to alleviate the pressures of life, I thought to want to, want to find a high starting point by marriage husband, can avoid the trouble of employment, but also to avoid the years of struggle hard! "
Many girls are anxious to marry same as Liu failed to find work after a few had "married life take shortcuts" idea. So,piumini woolrich, this will be a happy marital life as a gateway to "shortcut" the idea, and how much can be ideal to become reality?
Experts offer advice: Happiness depends on your hands
For "urgent married family" phenomenon, the reporter interviewed psychology expert Liu Yingjiang. She advised those who want to get married and go through life shortcut female college student,piumini woolrich, said:. "To give up their own effort and struggle, hope that through this utilitarian marriage to take shortcuts in life does not work because the basic idea of ​​marriage is certain to have feelings As a foundation, blindly take the youth and there is room, a car, money,piumini woolrich, and status so the material conditions of exchange, very unreliable. families composed in this manner,http://ensembleada.com/publicity_next12/sunbbs.cgi?mode=form&no=262&page=1.%22, even if it is rich, it is difficult to have a long happy, Because it's a starting point to a hidden crisis. "
Liu Yingjiang that "anxious to marry a family" appearance, but also from one side reflects the thinking of unearned hedonistic tendencies are rampant in some college students. Produce many girls in school "learn better than a good marriage,http://web.thu.edu.tw/kudo/www/bbs/yybbs/yyregi.cgi," after work "done better to marry well," the negative thoughts from school after that long standing marry a rich husband, life is happy, do not have to struggle, and you can enjoy peace of mind. This idea by hand and pleasure is a false values, which should attract the attention of parents and schools and proper education and guidance.
Liu Yingjiang also noted that with increasing pressure on employment, employment of female graduates difficult indeed to some extent, affect their confidence to play to their talent. Some female students on the eve of graduation to become "anxious to marry a family," and nowadays society is undoubtedly a degree of gender discrimination in employment. Many units is indeed rather badly with the conditions and capabilities are boys rather than with the conditions and capabilities are more strong girls. Therefore,piumini woolrich, the establishment of the Equal Employment reasonable norms should be caused widespread concern in all sectors of society.